{"id":527,"date":"2016-07-19T14:03:20","date_gmt":"2016-07-19T14:03:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamibrumbaugh.com\/?p=527"},"modified":"2016-07-19T14:03:20","modified_gmt":"2016-07-19T14:03:20","slug":"teen-tug-of-war","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tamibrumbaugh.com\/?p=527","title":{"rendered":"Teen Tug-of-War"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-529\" src=\"https:\/\/tamibrumbaugh.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/week1-pic-library.jpg\" alt=\"week1 pic--library\" width=\"1580\" height=\"836\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tamibrumbaugh.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/week1-pic-library.jpg 1580w, https:\/\/www.tamibrumbaugh.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/week1-pic-library-300x159.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tamibrumbaugh.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/week1-pic-library-768x406.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tamibrumbaugh.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/week1-pic-library-1024x542.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tamibrumbaugh.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/week1-pic-library-500x265.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1580px) 100vw, 1580px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t pass for a teen anymore. A few gray hairs are sneaking into my hair, bags are forming under my eyes, and extra pounds are refusing to acknowledge that I work out every day (okay, <em>almost <\/em>every day).<\/p>\n<p>But I still gravitate to the young adult aisles in my public library\u2014even when my teens aren\u2019t with me. I\u2019d like to say it was all because I\u2019m being a good mom, reading books that my kids read so we can discuss them. That <em>is<\/em> a factor. But I\u2019m also invading the teen section because I love reading books from every age group. Pete the Cat makes me start rhyming. Junie B. Jones cracks me up. Voldemort gives me the chills. My imagination gets cramped when I stay entirely in the book aisles geared specifically for adults. That\u2019s probably why I\u2019m an author for children and teens.<\/p>\n<p>Lately, I\u2019ve noticed a concerning trend in teen books. While there are still many decent books, I\u2019m seeing more and more books specifically geared to young adults that I do <em>not<\/em> want my teens to read. Books with innocent sounding back covers are often laden with confusing messages. I\u2019m not a censorship advocate, but COME ON.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe some authors feel they need to incorporate sex and drugs to make their stories more thrilling. After all, it doesn\u2019t do any good for us to write books if they\u2019re just collecting dust on the shelves, while teens stay glued to a variety of screens. But isn\u2019t it possible to write books that entertain and yet still encourage the next generation to make wise choices? Stress, confusion, and depression are already being fueled by media promoting unrealistic physical standards, sexual entanglements, and drug use. Why fan the flames by promoting the same elements in books?<\/p>\n<p>There is a tug-of-war going on for our kids and teens today. Parents now have more outside forces to battle to keep kids on a positive path. I\u2019m not ready to admit defeat. My kids are too important. <em>Your<\/em> kids are too important. I\u2019m going on a quest to find ways to encourage the character traits that our society is trying to tear down. I would love to share what I find with you in this weekly blog. Together, we can make a difference.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I can\u2019t pass for a teen anymore. A few gray hairs are sneaking into my hair, bags are forming under my eyes, and extra pounds are refusing to acknowledge that I work out every day (okay, almost every day). 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