{"id":603,"date":"2016-10-11T09:00:19","date_gmt":"2016-10-11T09:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tamibrumbaugh.com\/?p=603"},"modified":"2016-10-10T21:36:48","modified_gmt":"2016-10-10T21:36:48","slug":"30-ways-to-focus-on-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tamibrumbaugh.com\/?p=603","title":{"rendered":"30 Ways to Focus on Others"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-604 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/tamibrumbaugh.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/helping-others-cartoon-pic-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"helping-others-cartoon-pic\" width=\"396\" height=\"230\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes ways to help others just occur naturally. If I see a lady juggling a baby, a diaper bag, and a fussy toddler and she\u2019s approaching a door, I will instinctively open the door for her. I remember what it was like to wish I had three hands. Maybe you do, too.<\/p>\n<p>There are times, however, when I want to keep my eyes off myself, but I just don\u2019t have ideas bubbling through my brain on how to make a positive difference. I may not always have the time or the resources to go on a mission trip to Africa, but I can always offer a bit of sunshine. I decided that a list might inspire me when I\u2019m stumped for ideas. Maybe the list will inspire you as well.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Find someone at work or school who looks lonely and talk to them.<\/li>\n<li>If you\u2019re sitting waiting your turn to eat at a restaurant, give your seat to someone else.<\/li>\n<li>Compliment someone.<\/li>\n<li>Give someone a hug.<\/li>\n<li>Contact someone who you haven\u2019t reached in years.<\/li>\n<li>Let a car enter in front of your car.<\/li>\n<li>Pick up litter during your walk.<\/li>\n<li>Offer your change to someone who comes up short in the check-out line.<\/li>\n<li>Volunteer at a charity.<\/li>\n<li>Actively listen to someone, even if they are talking for a long time.<\/li>\n<li>Donate blood.<\/li>\n<li>Try to grow extra in your garden so you can give some fresh food away.<\/li>\n<li>Assist someone who looks lost.<\/li>\n<li>Donate clothing or other items to a charity.<\/li>\n<li>Visit someone who lives alone.<\/li>\n<li>Mow someone\u2019s yard.<\/li>\n<li>Shovel the snow out of someone\u2019s driveway.<\/li>\n<li>Give a family member breakfast in bed.<\/li>\n<li>Bake a treat for a neighbor or a friend.<\/li>\n<li>Forgive anyone who has wronged you.<\/li>\n<li>Do a chore you don\u2019t normally do.<\/li>\n<li>Make an extra effort to orient and include someone new.<\/li>\n<li>Send an encouraging text, email, or letter.<\/li>\n<li>Remember to wish someone happy birthday on time.<\/li>\n<li>Thank service men for their sacrifice.<\/li>\n<li>Clean up after yourself.<\/li>\n<li>Use any resources you have to help someone find a job.<\/li>\n<li>Call someone by name.<\/li>\n<li>Include everyone in the room.<\/li>\n<li>Smile.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Simple ideas really, but they can get your ideas flowing. Now it&#8217;s time to work in my garden so I have veggies to share. If only the squirrels and rabbits understood that I can\u2019t share with other people if they eat everything.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes ways to help others just occur naturally. If I see a lady juggling a baby, a diaper bag, and a fussy toddler and she\u2019s approaching a door, I will instinctively open the door for her. 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